Let me start this one again.
The post “new rules for new bands” was meant to be more of a harsh, realistic advice piece. Yet it came off as more of an aggressive, emotional piece. For that I apologize.
So again, let me start this one again.
Many people start bands in order to be rich and famous. This is honestly not very realistic as the industry of rich and famous musicians is crumbling. Independent musicians and record labels are doing much better in audience relations and (until the economy) profits (in relation to their market) than major record labels. The “rock star” is dead.
So, as a new band, to succeed you should not expect to be rich and famous. No matter how many people tell you that “you rock.” It’s easy to get an inflated ego when starting out. Look at most independent emo bands. There is a sense of egotism and entitlement in that genre. Most likely this is only because emo is popular and it fits a specific demographic. There are plenty of popular emo bands already, and no there is not room for many more in the world of musical indentured servitude.
Don’t get me wrong. I’m not saying that as a new band, your band sucks. I’m just saying it hurts to fall from high expectations. And if your expectations are fame and money, you will fall very, very far.
You need to build and maintain contacts. If there seems to be an issue with another band or a venue, and you sense that there is, it is a good idea to figure out what is wrong. In most cases it will be a miss-communication.
Which brings me to my next point. Miss-communications are incredibly common in the music world. Everyone has their own views, interpretations, goals, etc and it’s hard to get everyone on the same page.
As ?uestlove said in the documentary “Before the Music Dies,” you should have a band night. Like, Sunday night is band night where you just hang out and watch a movie. Switch up the person’s house and have someone cook dinner. Bands should have this kind of bonding experience in order to work as a successful machine.
If you get an opportunity to play a show. Any show. Take it. Be thankful for it. You might not (and probably will not) get paid. That’s okay because you will a) make contacts and b) introduce yourself to a new audience.
Treat other bands with respect and don’t talk smack about anyone because you never know who might be listening. Chances are the reason your talking smack is because of a miss-communication.
So, when you have your band day, instead of talking smack, assess the situation and examine both points of view. Burning bridges is never a good idea, so make sure there are no sparks to do so.
When playing with other bands, make sure you work on taking your stuff off the stage efficiently. It’s incredibly admirable in the eyes of other bands and the person working sound. It’s also very admirable to encourage your audience to stick around for the next bands.
Get to know everyone. Get to know your fans. Get to know the other bands. Get to know the people working the sound. To make this effort will make a world of difference. You never know who will be able to point you in a good direction.
Hopefully this advice is less harsh and more helpful. If you have any other tips or testimonials, please feel free to comment and I will post them below.



